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Wanting

Many of our deepest desires begin in someone else's imagination.

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AuthorLuke Burgis
Year2021

The Book in 3 Sentences

  • Many of our desires aren't actually our own. We often learn what to want by watching other people, whether it's success, status, careers, relationships, or even hobbies.
  • The book made me question how much of what I want comes from me versus the people around me. Friends, colleagues, social media, and rivals quietly shape our ambitions, often without us realizing it.
  • The biggest takeaway for me is to be more intentional about who I choose as my role models. Instead of chasing status or whatever everyone else seems to value, the book encourages identifying healthier influences and pursuing goals that genuinely align with who I want to become.